Watching Porn
by Peter James
Women hate to see their men stare at other women. That is why most of us guys have to look at porn in secret. They get too jealous at us looking at other women. So, we jack off in private and they get mad at that too. They get mad at the idea that we are having any kind of pleasure that doesn’t involve them. Sometimes I have wondered if this is just another attempt to control us. On the other hand, I know that it is. When you turn on the television, you see a ton of different programming. You can watch soaps, sports, talk shows, anything you can imagine. This is true with porn as well.
These tend to be the type of movies that you fast forward to the sex scenes.
If your woman is skeptical about porn, I would go with one of these types of movies. She will enjoy the content of it, while you enjoy the sex scenes. Sometimes in life you have to give to receive.
I think some women don’t like porn because it makes them feel uneasy about themselves. They see you going ape shit about a woman who has perfect breasts and a nice round ass. They see your penis get hard super fast looking at this woman comp aired to when you are in bed with her.
I think men would get upset if women were the same way. Luckily, women aren’t as much into porn as we are. Or we would all sound like a pussy and complain like our girlfriends do.
If your woman likes any kind of porn, great. Enjoy it with her. It will help you enjoy your sex life more. If she doesn’t like porn, try and see if she has a fetish she would like to explore. Maybe she would like to see some guys with big dicks get it on or something. That isn’t as bad as it sounds. If she is into something like guys with really big dicks, just makes sure you find some that are having sex with women you find attractive. This way you both win.
There is an increasing market for female porn viewers. I have seen many women go to the adult bookstore in my area to buy things. They all might not be buying porn movies, but the fact that they are going into such a place tends to show they are becoming more open.
I used to know a woman who loved watching gay porn. Before you spit out your morning coffee, think about it. We enjoy seeing two women go at it, why wouldn’t women enjoy watching gay men have sex? I know that seeing two gay men have sex can curdle the milk in your morning coffee and make your penis more limp than a worm on a sidewalk, but think about it. If you want her to watch those hot lesbians go at it, why not give and take a little. If she gets turned on, maybe she will want you to go down on her while she watches it. If that is the case, you won’t have to watch any of it. All you will be focusing on will be her canal du stink.
Porn can be a great way to spice up your sex life. On the other hand, it can ruin you. There are plenty of people in this world who are addicted to porn. That’s right, they are addicted to it like a drug. I don’t know if they shake if they haven’t wacked it to a porn movie lately, but I think you get the drift.
If you find that you are addicted to porn or can become addicted to it, I would suggest that you stay away from it. It will do nothing but harm you in the long run. There are support groups for people who are addicted to porn. I know that the whole idea of being addicted to porn seems weird. It is like someone becoming addicted to hot chocolate. How could anyone become addicted to such a great thing?
Like most things when it comes to sexuality, I wouldn’t force her to enjoy your love of porn. That will do nothing but make her hate it more in the long run. Instead, introduce it slowly and see how she responds. I would go with some soft core stuff. I wouldn’t rush right into a gang bang movie or a bukakke movie right away. That will turn her off in a second.
If she strongly opposes you looking at porn, well, look at it while she isn’t there. Make sure that your computer doesn’t leave any tracks behind that you have been looking at porn. Make sure if you are watching a porn tape, that you take the tape out of the VCR. Nothing would piss her off more than to turn on the VCR thinking that she is going to watch her favorite soap that she taped while she was away, only to find two big breasted women enjoying a bit of lesbianism.
Like most things in life, moderation is the key. Don’t over due it. If she sees that you want to watch porn every time you have sex, she will think that she can’t arouse you. If that happens, watch out. You won’t get laid for a long, long time. Then you will have to look at porn when you are horny!
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