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I received an email today with a question that I get quite often over the years that I have had adult websites. Here is part of the email I got with the question as well as my thoughts on this topic too…

“I just wanted to ask your opinion on something..since you have more experience then the average girl…Do you think it’s possible to have a threesome when in a committed relationship and for the relationship not to change in a bad way…My husband and I have discussed it many times but never went through with it.. by the way he’s a huge fan of yours…Right now I am pregnant and all that fun sex stuff is on hold  but still I can’t help having it all on my mind and thinking ahead for the future. Although I would love to have a threesome and i think about it allot I do worry about what it could do to our relationship..  Should we just take a chance and live a little or hold off.. I mean if I wasn’t so in love I don’t think it would worry me so much but I do worry and care about what it could do to our relationship.”

My first thought when I read this is that there is a lot of doubt here.  Although I am sure the fantasy for you both is strong and it can really make sex more exciting. The mind is very powerful. I personally think that if you can keep it a fantasy and have a wonderful relationship without actually going through with it then that may be the better choice for you.  Thats one of the reasons for adult movies and pornstars. We fulfill the fantasy so you can enjoy watching it together and fantasize. Now, many may read this and roll their eyes and say I am uptight but I know all too well of even couples in the adult business that have been ruined by actually going through with it.

If you trust one another fully and have no unhealthy jealousy issues and you want to go for it, I would suggest not doing it with someone that you are close with that you would see on a regular basis because of course that could lead to having threesomes happen more often which would lead to having an affair.  This is what I heard in your email that you may be afraid of especially since you are just starting a family. I also know of some couples that have certain rules and this seems to work for them and so far they are still together after a decade. Like no kissing with the other person for example. Keep certain things saved for just you and your loved one.

Sex is suppose to be enjoyable , not something that you are not certain of or doubt because in the end you may end of regretting it or you just may decide to become swingers.  Just remember, nothing should be forced. Its got to be 100% a joint decision not just one side pushing for it.

Hope this helps a little bit. Hope I dont come off like a know it all. Its just my personal thoughts from what I have experienced and learned over the years. I wish you all the best with your new family too!!

Love,

Catalina Cruz

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I am home from Vegas! These little trips are such nice breaks for me and I come back re-energized and ready to give it to you good again.  I am loving twitter because I was still able to keep in touch and let you all know I was still alive while I was there. I really truly do not know how I will ever retire from my website because I am ADDICTED  and love it!

Speaking of re-energized…. dont forget I have a special live event this coming Friday, October 16th! Two live girl/girl shows. You can watch Lela Star and I live on cam together for the 1st time. We are doing two shows. The 1st one will be at 4pm est and the next at 8pm est.

I will be on PrivateCamz tonight for some private one on ones starting at 8:30pm est if you would like to spend some time with me without the hassle of crowded cam shows.  I will jump on once and ahwile for fun. I will not be taking requested appointments because it is better for me not to be on a schedule and just jump on when I can. This way I will not dissapoint someone if I cannot make a certain time.  This way no feelings get hurt and its a lot of fun for me and its spontaneous.

Thats all for now. Good to be back:)

xo

Catalina Cruz

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Before I leave for Vegas, I leave you with a teaser screen shot from one of my newest video. Brooke & I gave some private french lessons together and tagged teamed a hard cock. 

So, I have been playing in private one on one cam shows recently. Have done it twice so far. I always wondered what they were like since I had never done them. I have girlfriends that have done them for many many years. I can tell you, they are more satisfying for me than I had thought. lol I really enjoyed spending quality time one on one with fans that have followed me for a long time and some new ppl too. It was very inimate and kinky.  When I get back after Monday, the 12th I will schedule to be on more as I know many were disspointed they missed me. You also can request an appt with me too on privatecamz. If I am available I will approve it. If not, I will deny it and you can try another day/time.  You also can email me for details. catalina@catalinacruz.com

Wish me lots of Blackjacks! I am off to play. Follow me on twitter for some Vegas pics while I am away. www.twitter.com/catalinacruz

xoxo

Catalina Cruz

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It’s time for a reality check blog. If you follow me on twitter you saw that I had posted a comment today that I am surprised when some people freak out that I interact with them on twitter. It really bothered me. I truly am grateful for any fans that I have over the years. Whatever kind of perfomer you are, if we dont have followers there is NOTHING! So all the fancy things that celebs/models brag about on cribs, on twitter, blogs ect. They would have none of that without fans. Hello!!  I guess more from the fact that I am growing tired of the games that we all play as humans to make ourselves feel better, especially being in the adult business.  It’s really sad and becoming uglier to me with each day.  I guess you can say I am having a Jerry McGuire moment. I have them from time to time. I re-evaluate myself and who I am surrounding myself with which isn’t many. I only have a few close true friends in my life. I’ll always be that way. I suppose this is why I do interact quite a bit with a lot of people on twitter to make up for that fact. 

I guess what I am trying to say is yes, some have warned me that I am too accessible and I will never change that. Just because you have some sort of success doesn’t mean you cannot chat with others.

Thats my thought of the day:)  Here is a pic to make it all better. lol

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Had a hard time sleeping last night. Too many things going on at once lately and I had a hard time shutting it down so I masturbated again even after having my live show last night.  I swear it is the best medicine and helps me sleep sometimes. Not ashamed to let this be known. More need to use it instead of sleeping pills.

Today I have a few beauty appts. Most girls love to get pampered but honestly sometimes I do and dont. I can get antsy because it can take so long to get your nails done, facial, whatever. I actually love to work and get things done so I guess I am just hyper.  But, I must stay beautiful while I can. lol I have two shoots next week that I am really looking forward to. Of course, you all will come along with me and get access to whatever trouble I get myself into as always!

Thats all for now. My live cam show from last night will be in the archive a bit later today so check out the members area hompage for the whole unedited show if you missed it. Sound like a broken record when I tell you this but there are always new members coming in too.

Enjoy your day!

xxx

Catalina Cruz

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A new photoset just went up once again for members called “Home Alone”  As requested more photos for you. Over the years I have always wondered if you ever get tired of the photos but you all still request them constantly. There are lots of pink shots in this one. This is a softer, more feminine set with very little makeup. I am the type of girl that really doesn’t like tons of makeup globbed on.  I think I look silly with a ton of it on but thats just imo. Hope you like them. This day in AZ I was very aroused while taking these pictures. It was a good time.

Catch me live on cam this Wenesday, August 19th at 11pm est. My last show was the highest rated with a 9.4. Thanks for having a good time with me!

Qoute of the day… “It does not matter how many times you get knocked down, but how many times you get up.”  Vince Lombardi  

Always loved this qoute above. This is dedicated to anyone that has been rejected, going through hard times, really anything negative in life from very important things like losing a loved one to a home to minor things like models not getting the gigs or jobs they want ect… use it all as a tool to get motivated and drive you. I always have done this and it seems to work instead of getting depressed and upset. Just have been getting a lot of email lately over ppl going through hard times. Always remember things may change when you least expect it if you are trying.

Catalina Cruz

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Do I make you horny bebe? I hope so! Here is a sample naughty pic of my new “Asian Flare” photoset. I was just so creamy and excited this day. Check out the whole gallery when you have time.

I am off on a jet plane to LA tomorrow. First in the afternoon, I will be attending a high school graduation which I am looking forward to and then off to the airport. I will be there about a week and will make sure to take you with me in spirit in my camera. Make sure to keep up with me in the members area on the fantasy board, and twitter of course.

Fingers crossed that the weather for flying will be ok, its storming here tonight in AZ…ahhhhh I just hate to fly but its a quick one. If I die, I love you all!!!

Kisses everyone! Have a great, relaxing weekend.

xoxo

Catalina Cruz

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Do I make you horny bebe? I hope so! Here is a sample naughty pic of my new “Asian Flare” photoset. I was just so creamy and excited this day. Just out the whole gallery when you have time.

I am off on a jet plane to LA tomorrow. First in the afternoon, I will be attending a high school graduation which I am looking forward to and then off to the airport. I will be there about a week and will make sure to take you with me in spirit in my camera. Make sure to keep up with me in the members area on the fantasy board, and twitter of course.

Fingers crossed that the weather for flying will be ok, its storming here tonight in AZ…ahhhhh I just hate to fly but its a quick one. If I die, I love you all!!!

Kisses everyone! Have a great, relaxing weekend.

xoxo

Catalina

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Hey there! I had some requests to post a pic of my new neck tattoo that you might of seen in my last few live cam shows as well as recent video. So, here it is. It’s my first colorful tattoo and has a lot of meaning to me too. I wanted each flower the same yet different and Walter from Club Tattoo at Planet Hollywood in Vegas was so good and I think he did a beautiful job so if you are in Vegas and want a tattoo I would recommend him.

Just wanted to share it with you. My cam show from today is going up in my archive tomorrow for you if you happened to miss it. It was orgasmic!!

Catalina Cruz

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I have such a passion for beauty products. I am always trying new ones and rating them just for fun. I have done it for years. So, I think it is time for me to venture out into the mainstream beauty world and have a special blog just for girls. Sorry guys… this blog is mainly for you and always will be:) So, I started working on a new adventure in my spare time which means not much time but I will make it happen. I was really inspired when I was taking a hot shower today and rubbing ocean salt all over my body, a product I love by the company, LUSH. I just love their natural products. They are such sexy products with amazing aromas and they have a line for men too.

Anyway, this is what I am also working on and wanted to share it with you all. I am having a blast working on it. This is my qoute of the day on my twitter…. “If you love what you do, you will be successful.” That is so true to me.

Here is a behind of scenes of me in the makeup chair, speaking of beauty products.

LUSHfully yours,

Catalina Cruz

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